My husband and I were discussing this the other day and we were going back and forth on it.

Here was the issue...he was saying I am competitive and I disagreed...lol...

As I thought more about it, I disagreed because when I hear the word "competitive", I think of being a sore loser or not enjoying the thing you are competing in unless you win.

And that's not me.

BUT I do like to win and I do like to be compete depending on the situation.

So I was torn.

And I am to this conclusion...I like to compete but I am competing against myself.

I learned a long time ago that if I am ONLY working to bet someone else, I am NOT reaching for my full potential...I'm only going slightly past THEIRS.

And that's not what I want.

I want to compete against the person I was yesterday, the person I was last month, the person I was last year.

That girl is going down!

Because me and her are fighting for the same why.

We are striving for the same goals and passion.

Unlike someone else.

And by competing against HER, I am going to work to do MY absolute best.

In this episode, I go deeper into this and why competing against others may be holding you back.